It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas — and that’s thanks in part to the Southold Village Merchants Association.

Every year for many years, trees have appeared on the sidewalks of Southold. Businesses purchase the trees, which are decorated by Southold Elementary School students, Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts. It’s a beautiful holiday tradition. Thank you, merchants, teachers and troop leaders, as well as the children!

Birthdays are up! Happy birthday to Walter Berry and my sister, Daria Moffat, on Dec. 5; Lori Guyer, Dec. 7; Matt Reilly, Dec. 9; and Lynne Baldwin and Joanne Schelin, Dec. 14. Enjoy your day, everyone!

Congratulations to the talented Southold High School musicians who performed under the direction of guest conductors in the 2015 NYSCAME All-County Music Festival Nov. 20: Aidan Walker, orchestra; Nick Orientale, mixed chorus; and Meg Pickerell, women’s chorus. Bravo!

Congratulations also go to Southold High School senior Dominick Panetta, who was named to the 2015 all county football team. He was nominated for his skills as a receiver, though he also played tight end, safety and linebacker on the Greenport/Southold/Mattituck varsity football team. This is quite an honor for a remarkable young man. You made us all proud!

Not everyone is fortunate enough to be able to afford gifts for their children. Let’s remember those people this holiday by contributing to CAST’s annual toy drive, which runs through Dec. 21. Unwrapped toys can be dropped off in Southold at the library, Mullen Motors, Capital One Bank, Bridgehampton National Bank or Hudson City Savings Bank. Monetary or gift card donations should be taken directly to the CAST office in Greenport. Call 477-1717 with any questions.

Here’s a great plan for this Saturday, Dec. 5: Start off with a pancake breakfast, then head to the Holiday Fair at the town recreation center and after that drop by the animal shelter for an open house. Details for each event follow.

Southold High School’s juniors will host a pancake breakfast with Santa on Saturday from 8:30 to 10:30 a.m. in the elementary school cafeteria. Tickets are $7 per person or $25 for a family of four. Fare includes pancakes, bacon, sausage, hash browns and bagels.

The North Fork Animal Welfare League open house at the town shelter runs Saturday from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Bring your pet for a free photo with Santa, enjoy refreshments and be sure to purchase the shelter’s 2016 calendar. (An especially adorable hamster represents December.) Please also consider bringing a donation of canned or dry dog or cat food. You can also take a tour of the shelter and learn how you can volunteer or help out there.

Across the street at the rec center, the Southold Historical Society will host a wonderful Holiday Fair Saturday from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. (Leave the pets home for this one, though.) There will be photos with Santa, face painting and lots of vendors with wonderful gift options. For further details, call 765-5500.

The holiday season brings some deadline changes for this column. So here’s early notification: My next deadline is Sunday, Dec. 13, for the Dec. 17 issue. Then I’ll have an extra holiday column with a news deadline of Thursday, Dec. 17. Then we take a week off, so the Southold column won’t appear again until Jan. 14, , with a deadline of Sunday, Jan. 10.

For those who celebrate, as Hanukkah continues, marvel in the miracle of the season. For all others, remember that amid the hustle and bustle, manners do matter. Just saying. Cashiers and clerks are doing their jobs the best they can. Smile at people and wish them Happy Holidays or Merry Christmas. It will go a long way in making everyone’s day wonderful!

Top photo: Aidan Walker practicing at Southold High School in September. (Credit: Jen Nuzzo, file)

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

I think the weather is confused. Not only is my love of snow being fed, but daffodils are popping up all over town. I wonder what will come next?

The first birthdays involve belated wishes to Ginny Corazzini, who celebrated Feb. 7, and Kim Jobes, who did the same on the 8th. Also celebrating are Peggy Murphy on Feb. 14; Corey Pontino, Scott DeSimone and Karen Van Bourgondien on Feb. 16; Sean McHugh, Feb. 17; Paulette Ofrias, Feb. 18; Liam Mullen, Feb. 19; and Toni Ann Sinning and Hanna DeSimone on Feb. 21. Happy birthday, y’all!

Happy anniversary to two wonderful couples: Dan and Lois Manfredi on Feb. 12 and Donna and Robert Mosquera, whose 25th anniversary is Feb. 17.

All aboard, all you train lovers! The Southold Historical Society will host a weekend of “Trains, Trains, Trains” at the Reichert Center, Saturday and Sunday, Feb. 20-21, from 1-4 p.m. There will be plenty of activities for children, and at 2 p.m. Railroad Museum of Long Island president Don Fisher will speak about the train layouts.

The North Fork Animal Welfare League will host the third annual “Winter is for the Dogs” Comedy Night Saturday, Feb. 20, at Osprey’s Dominion Vineyard in Peconic. Doors open at 6:30 p.m., with John LaRocchia starting the show at 8 p.m. Tickets may be purchased online for $30 at eventbrite.com or at the door for $40. This is a 21-and-older event; wine and beer will be available for purchase.

Speaking of the shelter, it’s in need of donations of pet-safe ice melt, office supplies, large dog sweaters, coats and fleece, canned cat food, “like new” dog houses and peanut butter. Any questions, call 631-765-1811, ext. 1.

An afternoon of entertaining storytelling will take place at Southold Free Library Saturday, Feb. 27, at 2 p.m. Marilyn Weigold of Southold, a professor at Pace University, will talk about her book, “Peconic Bay: Four Centuries of History on Long Island’s North and South Forks.” Refreshments will be served.

To honor National Poetry Month in April, the library will showcase a gallery featuring the creative work of North Fork poets. To submit a poem, drop it off at the library, along with a few sentences about the poet’s background, or email it to Vivian Eyre at vveyre@gmail.com. The submission deadline is Friday, March 4. The poetry gallery will open April 1 and a reception and reading is planned for Saturday, April 23. 

My next deadline is Sunday, Feb. 21, but feel free to get your information to me earlier. Have a wonderful two weeks.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

Anyone else feel like a yo-yo in the weather department? From -2 degrees to 51 in eight days.

The birds are chirping, flowers are popping up, but will there be more snow? It’s only the end of February. You all know what I’m hoping for, but I am enjoying the loud melodious song of the birds and the splashes of color on my bird feeders.

Right to the best part: birthdays. Belated wishes go to Ginny Pickering who turned 98 Feb. 15! Celebrations are coming up for Bernadette Taplin on Feb. 26; Kelli Baumann and Terry Pontino on March 1; Jen Cardi on March 3; and Donna (White) Dunne on March 8. Happy birthday one and all!

Belated anniversary wishes to Dan and Ruth Poliwoda, who celebrated their 50th on Feb. 20.

The CAST Have-a-Heart dinner is this Friday, Feb. 26, at Peconic Landing. Dinner includes salad, lasagna, garlic bread, coffee and dessert. For tickets, call 631-477-1717. Proceeds support CAST’s winter emergency funds. This is neighbors helping neighbors.

Southold Free Library has tickets for a bus trip to “Orchidelirium” at the New York Botanical Garden on Wednesday, April 6. The bus leaves the King Kullen parking lot in Cutchogue at 9 a.m. and departs the Botanical Garden at 4 p.m. Tickets are $55 for the bus, tour and all admissions; lunch is on your own. We are sharing the trip with the Cutchogue New Suffolk and Floyd Memorial libraries.

The Southold High School Drama Club production of “Mary Poppins” will run Thursday through Saturday, March 17-19, at 7 p.m. and Sunday, March 20, at 2 p.m. More details to come.

Save the date, Sunday, April 3, for the Southold PTA’s chinese auction at the elementary school building. Doors open at noon and refreshments will be available for purchase. There are three tiers of prize tickets — $1, $5 and $10 — and all proceeds support the PTA. Some prizes already lined up include tickets to the College Football Hall of Fame; an American Girl doll; an autographed N.Y. Jets lithograph; A $90 Otterbox voucher; $25 gift certificates to Sophie’s and Southold Fish Market; Top of the Rock tickets; Storyland tickets. The list of contributors is growing as the event nears.

The Book Cottage at Southold Library is open for sales and donations. Hours are Wednesday, 11 a.m. to 3 p.m., and Saturday, 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. If you have some extra time and want to volunteer, call Jenny Schlecht at 631-765-3353 for details.

My next deadline is March 6. Feel free to send me birthdays and anniversaries far in advance; I keep them in my calendar. Have a fundraiser? Please share it with me. Have a wonderful two weeks. Remember not to sweat the small stuff. Find the joy in every day.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

Birthdays first: Belated birthday wishes go to Melissa Palermo on March 4 and Brian Henry and Evan Small, who turned 10, on March 7.

Also celebrating are Kevin Horne, March 10; Dominick Panetta, Andrea Pickerell and Rob Guarriello, March 13; Martha Hansen, Sonomi Obinata and Kevin Reilly, March 17; Andrea Manfredi, Katie Baumann and Nikolas Cartselos, March 18; Judy Zaveski and Sophia Small, March 19; Tom Small, March 20; Kim Perry, March 21; and Allison Latham and Owen Klipstein, March 23. That’s a whole lotta birthdays!

The Southold and Greenport school garden committees are once again hosting Souper Bowls this Sunday, March 13, from noon to 3 p.m. Bring your own spoon and bowl and fill it as many often as you like with different soups from local restaurants. There are also crafts for the kids, a bake sale and more. It’s a great time to mingle! The fee of $10 goes directly to supporting gardens.

Don’t forget ‘Mary Poppins’ at Southold Schools, March 17-19 at 7 p.m. and 2 p.m. on March 20. Tickets available at the library and the door. If you purchase at the door, please leave extra time, as lines can be long.

The East End Lions Club’s 62nd annual corned beef and cabbage dinner at the Soundview Restaurant runs Wednesday and Thursday, March 16 and 17, from noon to 8 p.m. There is also a scallop option and takeout is available. Tickets are $20.

The Harlem Wizards are coming to town! Ericka’s Fighters for CF will take on the Wizards Thursday, March 24, at 7 p.m. in the Southold High School gym. Ericka Auer, Class of 2014, lost her battle with cystic fibrosis in November of that year. All event proceeds will be donated to the CF Foundation in her honor. Tickets are $12 ($10 for students); purchase in advance at Southold Pharmacy. Tickets at the door are $15. T-shirts will be for sale at the game and can be ordered at the pharmacy to raise additional funds and support the Southold staff.

The Southold PBA will host its annual Easter egg hunt Saturday, March 26, 10 a.m. at the Southold School fields.

Randee Dadonna has done it again! She’s been nominated for two N.Y. Emmy awards! Her work on the “Spice of Life,” based on Greenport resident Earl Fultz, and a piece on an Orient tobacco farmer have earned her these accolades. The ceremony is March 19. Good luck, Randee!

Congratulations to cousins Katie Krukowski and Shannon Smith. Katie made the fall dean’s list at Suffolk County Community College and Shannon did so at St. Mary’s. They have very proud grandparents who were happy to share the news.

Students of the Month at the high school for January are: Brook Averette, art; Raeann Berry, business education; Noah Mina, Spanish; Dante Tramontana, NJROTC; Brizeida Palacios, ESL; Samantha Baldwin, Culinary Arts I; Vanessa Ramirez-Torrento, math; and Milton Santos Cuellar and Annette Newman, reading.

Students of the Month at the middle school are Danielle Henry and Hanna DeSimone, art; Hanna DeSimone, Spanish; Carlos Gomez, home and career skills; Cole Brigham, Andrew Clausen and Edy Nazario, math; Emily Newman, science; Joey Silvestro, physical education; and Edy Nazario, reading.

The Southold Mother’s Club celebrates Easter with Bagels with the Bunny  at 10 a.m. Sunday, March 20, at the Southold Town Recreation Center on Peconic Lane. There will be bagels, muffins, juice, coffee, crafts, games and raffles. The egg hunt will take place at 11:15 a.m. The cost is $5 for adults and $3 for kids ages 2 and up. Children 2 and under are admitted free. For further information, check their website, southoldmothers.org.

My next deadline is Saturday, March 19 — a day early so I can spend time with our oldest, who’s coming for a visit. Feel free to share dates as early as you have them. I can keep them in the calendar. Please take a moment to smile at a stranger and stop to appreciate at least one person in your life. You could make someone’s day today!

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

As I write this, the town is buzzing about SNOW… yes, first day of spring and we are forecast to get four to eight inches of snow. Ack!

Now there is a two-hour delay; it must be serious. I have mixed feelings about this. On one hand, I would love a snow day since my oldest is in town visiting and they could get in some sibling time. On the other hand, I’m ready for flowers, no coats, noisy birds and flip-flops. Mark this on the calendar: I am not doing my snow dance!

Birthdays: Sarah Perry, March 24; Savannah Alexander and Rebecca Guarriello, March 25; Michael Horne, March 27; Flynn Klipstein, Joe Manfredi, Reese Dunne and Tyler Lang, March 28; Melissa Grzegorczyk, March 29; Jessica Dunne, March 30; Brendan Mullen, March 31; Brian Becker, April 2; and Virginia Rubin, April 3.

Randee Daddona’s birthday isn’t until April 4, but she received a very special early birthday present March 19: her second Emmy Award for her work with Newsday. She was able to share the excitement with her husband, Lenny, and mother, Arline Reiner. Congratulations and happy birthday, Randee!

Congratulations to the Southold High School Robotics team on making the quarterfinals at the Cleveland Buckeye Regional competition. You can see them compete at Hofstra Friday and Saturday, April 1 and 2. The event is free and open to the public.

I don’t think there’s a right word to describe Southold Drama Club’s presentation of “Mary Poppins,” so I’ll simply say it was supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! From the ensembles right on up to the leads, the students were spot on in their performances. Tapping toes to familiar songs, abundant laughter and delight in the flying were experienced. Congratulations!

The Southold PTA is hosting a chinese auction at the elementary school Sunday, April 3, from noon to 4 p.m., with a preview Friday, April 1, from 4 to 5:30 p.m. There is no entry fee and winners need not be present at the time of the drawing. Refreshments will be available for purchase. To whet your appetite, some examples of auction items include Disney World tickets and a Hampton Jitney ticket book in the $10 tier; an American Girl doll and signed Rangers puck in the $5 tier; and local gift certificates and a lotto tree in the $1 tier. Want to see more? “Like” their Facebook page, Southold PTA.

North Fork Animal Welfare League is hosting Pins for Paws and it’s bound to be a striking good time! The event takes place Friday, April 15, from 6 to 9 p.m. at The All Star bowling alley in Riverhead. The $25 fee includes shoe rental and two games. There will also be prizes and raffles; refreshments will be available for purchase. The event benefits the Southold and Riverhead animal shelters.

My next deadline is Sunday, April 3, at noon. As always, you can call and email me with info as early as you like. Remember to live outside your box: Volunteer at a local charity, help out a neighbor or simply take the time to see the world that’s bigger than just ourselves. As always, greet the people you see with a smile; it could change someone’s day!

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

Hello everyone! I have to do the proud mom/Southold resident thing here. Congratulations to the Southold High School robotics team, Team R.I.C.E. 870.

They placed second in a recent competition at Hofstra and won the engineering award, which qualified them for the world competition in St. Louis, Mo. Many thanks to advisers Chris Schade and Bob Gammon and to the volunteers, mentors and contributors! I’m afraid to mention people specifically for fear of leaving someone out. As I write this, the powers that be are determining how to get this team to St. Louis. Keep an eye out for fundraisers. To read more, follow the team on Facebook at “Team 870” or on their website at rice870.com.

I am astounded: There isn’t a single birthday to celebrate for Southold residents this column. How can that be? So I dug deep into my Facebook friends — not that deep, but yeah, if you’re Facebook friends with me, your birthday is fair game — and it is with great glee that I ask you to say happy birthday to SHS social worker Jessica Santiago on April 14.

Many wishes for a happy anniversary go out to Vinnie and Louise Tirelli. This wonderful couple celebrates April 11.

Three pieces of library news: April is National Poetry Month and you’re invited to visit the Poetry Gallery and read poems written by local poets of all ages. Arranged by volunteer poet Vivian Eyre, the poems are on exhibit in the community room. There will be a reception Saturday, April 23, at 1:30 p.m. with a reading from 2 to 4 p.m. Refreshments will be available.

Poem in your Pocket Day will be celebrated this year on Thursday, April 28. Choose any poem, carry it with you throughout the day and share it with others. Channel your inner bard.

Multimedia pieces by Southold High School students are on exhibit throughout the first and second floors of the library during April. This annual exhibit is curated by art instructor Dan Gosnell. Stop in soon and enjoy the artwork.

The Southold-Peconic Seniors will be running a trip to Quebec and the Isle of Coudres, departing Sunday, May 15, and returning Friday, May 20. Three of the nights will be spent on the Isle of Coudres, with tours of the island and ferries back to Quebec for tours of the city, St. Anne De Beaupre shrine, show entertainment, casino and more. The price is $649 per person, double occupancy, which includes breakfasts, dinners and one lunch, all tours and hotel stays, tax and tips. This is a wonderful time for a visit to our neighbors to the north. Contact Mary Pedersen at 631-765-9243 for further details. 

Thanks to the Southold Fire Department and American Heart Association Training Center, 350 Greenport school district students in grades 7-12 have learned hands-only CPR and how to use an automatic external defibrillator. Chris Manfredi, Roland Grant, Michelle Salmon and Jeff Corazzini trained the students during physical education class. Thanks go out to the P.E. staff — Andrea Manfredi, Luis Morales and Cindy Sepenoski — for their class time and for assisting with training. 

My next deadline is Sunday, April 17, at noon, but you can send me your news early. Be grateful for one thing every day; you’ll be surprised how much lighter you’ll feel.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

Oh, what a beautiful day! So very happy to see the sun. Yes, I know — “April showers bring May flowers.” You know what several days of April showers also bring? A sad face! The flowers are blooming and the trees are ready to explode. It’s exhilarating!

In birthday celebrations we have the following: our daughter, Caroline Koslosky, turns 13 April 21; Adam Siejka, April 22; Billy Burns, who turns 16, shares his April 23 birthday with Greg Ofrias; Janet Auer, April 26; Patrick Allen, who turns 13, April 28; Jen Volosik and Dean Loreto, April 29; Robert Guarriello, May 1; Ruth Poliwoda, May 2; Sean Conway, turning 16 and sharing his birthday with Mike Mraz on May 3; and Reese Thompson, who turns 13 on May 4. Happy birthday, everyone!

Twenty-six very excited Southold High School sophomores left yesterday for their trip to Europe. Destinations include Croatia, Slovenia, Italy and Austria. May you all have safe and enjoyable travels.

In other school news, the Team R.I.C.E robotics team is heading to St. Louis, Mo., next week for the national competition. Donations to offset their expenses can be sent to Team R.I.C.E. c/o Southold High School, P.O. Box 470, Southold, NY 11971. Good luck!

The Rotary Club of Southold hosts its annual chicken and ribs (or salmon) dinner Tuesday, April 26, from noon to 8 p.m. at the Soundview restaurant. The price is $25, not including gratuity, and takeout is available. You may purchase tickets at the door or from Rotarians. Rotary’s fundraising efforts date back to 1948 and help support many programs, including Maureen’s Haven, CAST and the food pantries, to name a few.

Southold Free Library will present “Giving New Life to Old Gravestones” on Sunday, May 1, at 2 p.m. on the library’s upper level. The program will focus on the Old Burying Ground at Southold’s First Presbyterian Church, the oldest English burying ground in New York State. Discover why this cemetery is so special, learn about the preservation techniques a professional conservator is using to clean, straighten and repair the stones and find out how you can participate! Refreshments will be served. You’re also invited to a hands-on demonstration at the Old Burying Ground Saturday, May 7, at 10 a.m. Observe stones being cleaned and straightened and cracks being repaired using techniques that are easy to apply.

Many people living on the East End travel to New York City to experience its many cultural and shopping experiences. The photographs of William Steeple Davis and Charles Henry Meredith show us the ever-evolving landscapes and beauty of the city over a span of 50 years, 1912-64. You can see them at the Southold Historical Society’s Reichert Family Center on Main Street through June 24. The gallery is open Saturdays from 1 to 4 p.m. or by appointment.

The Southold Sunshine Society will host its 10th annual fundraising luncheon Monday, May 2, at the Wharf House. The beautiful scenery is the backdrop for a sandwich luncheon at noon and game-playing until 3 p.m., with a prize for the high score at each table. Gather a foursome, pick a game to play, then book your table. Space is limited so reservations are required; call Anne Swanson at 631-765-5735.

March Students of the Month at SHS are: Harry Antonucci, art; Kimiko Fujita, business education; Alexi Saenz, ESL; Kathryn Stahl, Culinary Art I; Gus Klavas and Aidan Vandenburgh, physical education; Alex Krukowski, Spanish; Patrick Connolly, math; Mert Altintoprak and Alexa Palumbo, music; Lily Saeli, English; and Sam Basel, NJROTC.

Middle school Students of the Month for March are Rhian O’Neil, art; Tyler Woodhull, home and career skills; Juliet Rand, music; Cole Brigham, science; and Gabriela Contreras and James Hoyt, math.

My next deadline is Sunday, May 1, at noon. Wondering how you can make a difference in someone’s life? Give them your smile. It’s such an easy thing to do. Say hello for an added touch. Reach out and lend a hand to be the cream of the crop. Live outside your box. It makes your worries not too big.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

‘May already?’ I think I heard that a few dozen times last week at work. Time seems to be going quickly. Remember when we were kids and you felt like a week was too long and a month was forever?

A belated happy 85th birthday wish goes to Claire Borelli, who celebrated April 25, and to Jewell Gonzalez, formerly of Southold, and Josh Robinson, who celebrated May 2. Others celebrating are: Gina Anasagasti, who turns 18, May 5; Ed Baumann Jr., May 6; Emily Portillo, May 10; triplets Tristan, Kyle and Aaron Davis, May 11; Ed Baumann Sr., May 12; David Kloepfer, May 14; Bridget Rymer and my husband, Jim, who turns 50, May 15 (please feel free to rib him about it); Pete Kelly, May 16; and my son, Jack, who turns 16, May 17.

Those 26 excited Southold High School sophomores who left for Europe April 20 have arrived home after seeing many beautiful sites. The weather varied: one day 70 degrees, the next snow! Thanks go out to the chaperones: Mr. and Mrs. Baglivi, Mrs. Grathwohl, Ms. Derrigan, and of course, the teacher who has made it happen year after year, Mr. Santiago.

The SHS Robotics Team arrived home Sunday. It may not have turned out as the students and advisers all hoped, but they truly made a name for themselves at the world competition. While they were eliminated at the quarter finals, Southold Robotics Team R.I.C.E. finished the competition in the top 8 percent of the WORLD! Well done! Special thanks to Christine Schade, who managed to arrange travel for the team with only three weeks’ notice, her co-adviser, Bob Gammon, as well as the many adult volunteers.

Historical society news: Founder’s Day tea at the Anne Currie-Bell House will take place Sunday, May 15, from 3 to 4 p.m. Come hear director Karen Lund Rooney give a glimpse into the summer’s exhibition, Samplers. Speaking of the historical society, are you looking for a different shopping experience that helps fund it? Why not check out the Treasure Exchange, located at 54325 Main Road in Southold. Currently, they are open Saturdays from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

North Fork Animal Welfare League will host a talent show Saturday, May 21, from 2 to 6 p.m. at The Crazy Fork restaurant in Mattituck. Students from the four local schools ages 10-14 are welcome to compete. Call 631-298-1100 to register. The top three competitors will win a prize. Advance tickets can be purchased at The Crazy Fork for $20 or at the door the day of the event for $25 for adults and $10 for children under 14. The price includes a dinner of barbecue chicken, hamburgers, pasta and assorted salads. This event helps fund the Southold and Riverhead animal shelters.

Want to help the animal shelter but can’t make it to their event? They’re looking for donations of peanut butter, high-efficiency laundry detergent, leashes, towels, blankets, Dawn liquid dish detergent, Windex, bleach, wet and dry food, copy paper and paper towels. Items can be dropped off at the shelter daily. Need a pickup? Call me at the number at the top of this column and I’ll come get it.

The Southold School Educational Foundation is having their first-ever cash raffle. Tickets are $50, with a $3,000 first prize and four $500 prizes. They can be purchased at Southold Pharmacy, Polywoda Beverage, Robert’s Jewelers, Mullen Motors, Sophie’s and Southold Fish Market. Only 200 tickets to be sold; an invitation to the opening of the “History of Us” display at Southold School is included. Funds will go directly to internal grants for teachers to use to enrich curriculum in Southold schools. The drawing takes place June 10.

The Rotary Clubs of Southold and Greenport recently honored the Southold-Mattituck-Greenport Navy Junior Reserves Officer Training Corps Unit and Major Bill Grigonis at a dinner meeting at Soundview Restaurant. The unit was awarded a Rotary Paul Harris Certificate of Appreciation for its “outstanding community service” and for its many top honors in various NJROTC competitions. Major Grigonis was named as a Paul Harris Fellow in recognition of his dedicated service to the unit and the community. Congratulations!

My next deadline is Sunday, May 15, by noon. Take time to take stock in the positives of your life — it will make the bumps easier to traverse.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

Southold Webelos with their donation ‘check’ for North Fork Animal Welfare League. From left: kennel manager Gabby Glantzman and scouts Stephen Clements, Jack Goscinski, Noah Berry, Matthew Molnar and Michael Lucak. Not pictured: Justin McGreevy, Brendan Mullen and Bobby Doering. (Credit: courtesy photo)

My Facebook feed this weekend was flooded with news of graduation, prom, talent show and college kids coming home. So many wonderful, uplifting photos and videos. Congratulations to all involved in such wonderful events.

Happy birthdays go out to: Matt DeSimone, John Jaklevic and John McCaffrey on May 21; Dawn Grzegorczyk, May 22; Alex Poliwoda, May 23; Isabel Hegel and Carol Losquadro, May 24; Debbie Conrardy, Brian Walker and now 85-year-old Verna Fitzpatrick, May 26; Charlie Poliwoda, May 28; Tiffany Law, May 29; and Gina Bifulco, May 30.

At the library through the end of June is an interesting series of paintings titled “Do Animals Daydream?” This thought-provoking series is by local artist Nick Cordone. Go experience his take on human emotions as displayed by animals.

The Nautical Museum at the Horton Point Lighthouse will reopen shortly. Hours are Saturdays and Sundays, 11:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. — plus Monday holidays from Memorial Day to Columbus Day.

And on the subject of the historical society, I need to correct something from my last column. The SHS Treasure Exchange is open Tuesday through Saturday, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Consignments are accepted Tuesdays from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Come pig out at the fire department! Protection Engine No. 1 will host an all-you-can-eat pulled pork and shrimp dinner Saturday, May 28, from 6 to 9 p.m. Beer, wine and soda will be served. The ticket price is $30. Credit cards will be accepted and T-shirts will be available for purchase.

The North Fork Italian American Club will hold its scholarship fund luncheon Wednesday, June 1, from 12:30 to 3 p.m. at Giorgio’s restaurant in Baiting Hollow. The cost is $40 per person, with a cash bar. There will also be a chinese auction and raffles. Call Grace at 631-298-1145 for details. The club is proud of its tradition of granting scholarships to high school seniors on the North Fork.

It’s the end of an era. After more than four decades, the Ecumenical Nursery School is closing its doors. A party will be held Friday, June 10, to celebrate longtime Southold teacher Emily Gundersen and her aides Cathy Campbell, Liz Gordon, Barbara Shalvey, Virginia Buono and Darlene Girzadas. The festivities will take place at Southold Presbyterian Church from 7 to 9 p.m. Former ENS families are invited to come and say goodbye. Please RSVP to Sarah at 631-965-7859 or Megan at 516-983-8699.

Webelos II den of Southold Pack 6 did an interesting fundraiser recently. They collected cans and bottles for the five-cent return fee. When it was all added up, the boys collected $318 — that’s more than 6,000 bottles and cans! The den then donated the money to the Southold Town animal shelter. The den consists of Noah Berry, Stephen Clements, Bobby Doehring, Jack Goscinski, Michael Lucak, Justin McGreevy, Matthew Molnar and Brendan Mullen. Great job, boys!

Seventh-grader Juliet Rand has been invited to sing the national anthem at the Walt Whitman Birthplace in Huntington Station for its 30th annual Student Poetry Contest awards ceremony on Sunday, June 5.

My next deadline is early because of Memorial Day. I think I just heard the entire town groan or cheer. Cheer for summer and foot traffic for businesses. Or groan for the traffic the holiday marks. So my deadline for the June 2 issue is Wednesday, May 25, no later than noon.

Find time to enjoy the little things. They will help boost you up when the big stuff hits!

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

It’s official: I cannot turn left out of my driveway. Summer traffic has arrived. Let’s do something different this year, folks. How about being grateful for the foot traffic to our places of employment and our friends’ stores. Welcome, everyone!

It’s a short birthday list this week. Bill Conway celebrates on June 7; Kerry Conrardy on June 11; and Sondra Russell on June 12.

The Southold School Educational Foundation still has tickets for its first annual cash raffle, with a $3,000 first prize and four $500 prizes. Tickets can be purchased for $50 each at Southold Pharmacy, Founders Tavern, Polywoda Beverage, Robert’s Jewelers, Mullen Motors, Sophie’s and Southold Fish Market. Only 200 tickets will be sold. Proceeds go directly to internal grants for teachers to use to enrich the curriculum in Southold schools. The drawing is June 10; an invitation to the opening of the school’s “History of Us” display at Southold school comes with each ticket.

Horton Point Lighthouse and Nautical Museum opened May 28 and will be open to visitors from 11:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. every Saturday and Sunday through Columbus Day. Mark your calendar for Keeper’s Talks on Saturday, June 11, “Oysters on Long Island,” and Saturday, June 25, “Shipwrecks: The Commodore.” Both are at 3 p.m.

In library news, come in and enjoy the pocket park just east of the library on Main Road. Fronting the entrance is the Picket Fence Garden, planted several years ago by the Friends of the Library. Walk through the parking lot to the grass and you’ve arrived! Marvel at Tony Valderrama’s mural, filled in with vibrant colors by a group of enthusiastic painters of all ages! On the opposite side of the pocket park is a lovely garden designed by Christine Harmon and planted with beauty by many helping hands. The vision, in the making for several months, became a beautiful reality at the recent Community Art and Nature Festival. This is just the beginning … watch for more! 

Here’s a reminder that you can borrow more than books from your library. Fishing rods and tackle boxes can be checked out with your library card. A museum pass to the Children’s Museum of the East End is available, too. Discounted tickets for the Long Island Game Farm and Long Island Aquarium can also be purchased.

Stop at the circulation desk to take a chance (or several) on the “Color Me Calm” raffle offered by the Friends of the Library. The winner will receive several coloring books of designs and patterns, markers and colored pencils, an Avian Friends 1,000-piece jigsaw puzzle and two fine bone china mugs made in England. Chances are $1 each with all proceeds directly benefiting the library. The drawing will be Wednesday, June 15. 

Colored pencils and blank coloring patterns are also available on the second level of the library. Enjoy coloring while visiting the library! Nearby are newspapers, magazines and a Keurig coffee machine to enhance your stay. 

April students of the month at the high school are Kai Obinata, art; Michael Dolan, business education; Willow Wilcenski, math; Cora Small and Julia Daddona, music; Sam Basel, NJROTC; Jose Santos, reading; and Michael Daddona, Spanish.

Students of the month for April at the middle school are Felicia Kayel, art; Jacquelyn Constantine, music; Rhian Tromantana, science; Hanna DeSimone and Nick Vicinanza, math; Cole Brigham, physical education; Yao Yao Reilly, reading; and Ella Neese, Spanish. Congratulations to all!

My next deadline is June 12. Feel free to share your news. I hope you take the time to experience all the wonders and gifts our area has to offer. Remember to reach out to those who might not be feeling too social due to a loss. I know so many people who have suffered recent losses. You are all in my prayers. Hug those you love.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

Woo-hoo! School’s out for summer! Yup, I’m one of those moms who’s happy to have the kids home more and free time abounding. Congratulations to all the graduates at many levels.

Birthdays: Saylor Hughes and Pollina Anselemo, July 5; Tom Loreto, July 9; Lois Manfredi and Jamie Grzegorczyk, July 12; Kyra Panetta and John Zaveski, July 13; and Jamie Engles, who turns 13 on July 14. Happy birthday, everyone!

Happy 17th anniversary to Dawn and Jamie Grzegorczyk on July 3.

Fourth of July means it’s time for the 19th annual Southold Village Merchants Parade, which starts at noon and runs from Hobart Lane to the American Legion.

Want to march in the parade? Dress in red, white and blue and join the Southold Free Library float at 11:30 a.m. on Maple Lane, opposite the firehouse.

In other library news, “Visions of Scenic Long Island” is the July exhibit featuring work by photographic artist Robert Bloom.

‘Rest Your Mind in the Good Old Summertime!” is a program currently underway for all post-high school readers. Read books in any format. Pick up blank forms at the circulation desk and fill out one per book. Submit your forms at the circulation desk throughout the summer. All forms will be entered into a raffle. The drawing for a grand prize will be held Monday, Aug. 29. Come join the fun!

Want to visit the Long Island Aquarium in Riverhead or Long Island Game Farm in Manorville? The library has discounted tickets to both. Want to go to the Children’s Museum of the East End in Bridgehampton? Come borrow a pass from the library. All passes and tickets are available at the circulation desk.

Join the ELIH Auxiliary for “Ladies’ Day on the Links” Thursday, July 7, at Island’s End golf course in Greenport. Continental breakfast starts at 8 a.m., tee time is 9 a.m. and there’s a buffet luncheon with a cash bar plus prizes and a 50/50 raffle. Win $15,000 with a hole-in-one, sponsored by Robert’s Jewelers of Southold. The cost is $125 per golfer with a limit of 72 golfers. Register by July 2. Call Barbara Koch at 631-477-0975 or 631-553-4857 or Bill Fish at 631-477-0777.

Congratulations to Paula Daniel of Peconic, winner of the ELIH Auxiliary’s car raffle. After buying tickets for 10 years, she finally hit the jackpot this year and is reportedly thrilled with the prize she chose: a 2016 Chrysler 200 provided by Mullen Motors in Southold.

Southold Fire Department will host a backyard all-you-can-eat Seafood Bash Saturday, July 16, at 7 p.m. Food will be served until 9 p.m. and a band will play until 11 p.m. A chinese auction and 50/50 raffle will also take place. Tickets are $50 (credit cards accepted) at the main firehouse or from any department member. Bring your own table and chairs and enjoy a wonderful community event.

Southold Historical Society has two exhibitions coming up. “Dead Man’s Cove: 10 Shipwrecks and One Lighthouse” runs through August at Horton Point and showcases the stories of 10 vessels that ran into trouble in Long Island Sound.
From July through October, SHS presents “Schoolgirls and their Samplers.” Sarah and Nancy Glover of Southold worked hard on their samplers while going to school in the 1830s. This exhibition features the stories of past schoolgirls as well as the needlework of other women over the years. Call 631-765-5500 for specific locations and times.

T-shirts are still available to help the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation in memory of Ericka Auer. Youth and adult sizes can be purchased for a $10 cash donation at Southold Pharmacy’s front register.

Peggy Murphy recently went to Ithaca for the baptism of her youngest great-grandchild, Julian Bellini Norkus. Julian’s grandparents are Kate (Dow) and Greg Norkus. Her next stop was San Marcos, Texas, to see grandson Stephen Dow Jr. graduate with honors from Texas State University. Both families are frequent visitors to Southold. We hope to see them all soon.

My next deadline is Sunday, July 10, at noon. Email works best, but phone calls are welcome, too. As you celebrate the birth of our nation, take a moment to thank the many people who came before us who helped make our country great. Thank a soldier for keeping us safe.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

The recent events have left me at a loss for words to describe my thoughts. Maybe I will come up with something by the end of this article.

Birthdays: Jamie Engles is a teenager today, turning 13 on July 14. It’s a busy two weeks in the Reilly home: Cathy on the 16th, Jack on the 18th, Chris on the 24th and Yao Yao on the 26th. Others celebrating are Deanna Walker, July 17; William Grzegorczyk, July 19; Lucas Grigonis, July 20; Erin Kaelin, Darlene Fulda, Melinda Hanold and me, July 21; and Rick Osmer and Carolann Losquadro, July 22.

Kenney’s-McCabe’s Beach Civic Association has been in existence for 48 years. Its purpose is to enhance and preserve the residential character of the Kenney’s-McCabe’s Beach neighborhood and to promote the common interests and welfare of the neighborhood’s residents and property owners. Dr. Z. Micah Kaplan, M.D., vice chair of the Eastern Long Island Hospital Foundation, will speak at the association’s annual meeting at 9 a.m. Saturday, July 16, at Peconic Lane Community Center. The event will address “How does the ELIH/Stony Brook Partnership Affect You?” All are welcome.

The library has a presence at Goose Creek Beach! Look for the attractive little library sitting atop a post, then open the door, reach in and pluck out a book. They each have a label reading “SOUTHOLD FREE LIBRARY. This book is for YOU!” Let us know what you think!

Southold Historical Society invites you to a morning of fun and frolic at Horton Point Lighthouse honoring Harry Potter and his friends. There will be games, activities, snacks and music based on experiences at Hogwarts! If you’d like, arrive in costume or wear the colors of your favorite house. The event takes place Saturday, July 16 (rain date: July 17), from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Admission is $25 for adults and $15 for children; anyone under 12 must be accompanied by an adult. Registration is a must; do so by visiting southoldhistoricalsociety.org or call the office at 631-765-5500.

Do you need to find some peace in the craziness of summer? Come on down to Southold Historical Society’s museum complex for Sunday morning yoga classes at 8 a.m. These one-hour classes are for all levels of experience. Donations are suggested; call the historical society with any questions at 631-765-5500.

Sam Hokanson is off to Cambodia today. Yes, Cambodia! Sam will be serving in the Peace Corps for the next 27 months, teaching English to children. Good luck, Sam!

Andy Rubin recently earned his pilot instrument rating. This is a precursor to getting his commercial certification. He also received a rating for flying complex and high-performance aircraft. Andy is a junior at Bridgewater State University studying aviation science. Great job, Andy!

Congratulations to Jacob Boivin, who participated a second time in Envision Experience’s junior national leadership program. He was nominated by one of his teachers last year and returned this year as an alumnus. Jacob spent the week in Boston at a variety of workshops and classes. Check out envisionexperience.com for more information about this great opportunity for our children.

My next deadline is Saturday, July 23, by noon. Please note the change to Saturday deadlines.

As you leave your home, I encourage you to go into the world with love. No good has ever come from hate. Labels do nothing but divide us when we are stronger united. EVERY life matters. And the most important: Do not judge. You likely, rarely, if ever have ALL the details. Acceptance is so much better, and easier, too.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

Let’s start this way: Mea culpa! I work at a local family-owned business and try to include all my coworkers. To me, celebrating someone’s birthday is like saying, “I’m happy you were born.” Well, I forgot someone last time. Horrible; bad Tina! So: Annie Woodhull celebrated her birthday July 30 with oysters, champagne and NASCAR. She even got to check in trackside with Mike Wheeler, crew chief to Denny Hamlin!

In other birthday news, a belated wish to Emily Kennedy, who turned 2 on Aug. 9. Caroline MacArthur, Kelly Hilary, Matt Hall and Diane Arnold celebrate Aug. 11; Nick Baldwin and Dan McCarthy, Aug. 12; Bette Lind, Aug. 13; Stephanie Biggart, Aug. 14; principal Bill Galati, who turns 50 Aug. 16; Sue Fisher, Aug. 18; Aidan Walker, Aug. 19; Lyndsay Grathwohl, Aug. 21; and Victoria Tondo and Dorothy Galati, Aug. 22.

Wedding anniversaries are coming up for Chris and Andrea Manfredi Aug. 19 and John and Linda Bertani Aug. 24.

If you happened to drive past Founders Landing this past Sunday, you likely encountered a big party. It was the Czartosieskis, who were celebrating their reunion with lots of family.

Wonderful news in the Taplin family. Amanda Taplin, granddaughter of Carol and the late Roy Taplin, announced her engagement to Colin McArdle of Hoboken, N.J. Amanda spent many a summer here in Southold with her grandparents. Amanda’s parents are Roy and Pam Taplin of West Palm Beach, Fla. A 2017 wedding in Costa Rica is being planned.

Come to Castello di Borghese Vineyard this Friday, Aug. 12, at 6 p.m. to meet the award-winning artists participating in Southold Historical Society’s upcoming art auction! You’ll have a chance to converse with the artists and get a sneak preview of the pieces to be auctioned. Tickets are $25; visit southoldhistoricalsociety.org to register. The auction itself will be held Saturday, Aug. 27.

Summer and holidays cause blood reserves to drop to their lowest levels of the year. Come and donate Wednesday, Aug. 17, from 2:15 to 8:15 p.m. at the Southold firehouse on Main Road.

Nina Romano, front woman for Nina Et Cetera, is a singer-songwriter from Sayville who is a throwback to another era. Bring your own picnic and chairs to Southold Historical Society’s museum complex Saturday, Aug. 13, at 6 p.m. Admission is $10 per person (children under 12 are free). Rain location is Southold Presbyterian Church.

The 36th annual Rotary golf tournament will be held Saturday, Aug. 27, at 1 p.m. at Island’s End Golf and Country Club. This event benefits ELIH, Camp Pa-Qua-Tuck and other Rotary programs. This fun-filled afternoon offers golf, fellowship, food, alcohol, prizes and good clean fun. For details and registration, contact Walter Krupski at 631-298-8026 or Kevin McLaughlin at 631-765-6085.

Registration for St. Patrick’s and St. Agnes CYO fall/winter basketball is going on now for grades 3 through 8. Email Jen at 1234sons@optonline.net for a registration form or more information.

Take some time to tell those you care for that you do. Don’t just say “Love you” like it’s autopilot, off the cuff. Look them in the eyes and say how you feel.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

The days are getting shorter and so is summer vacation. I’ve said before I’m one of those moms who loves summer vacation — the lack of structure and the freedom to just do whatever and go with the flow. Last week, a photo went viral online of a mother literally jumping for joy as her children, looking very unhappy, lined up waiting for the school bus. I am not one of those. Anybody else with me?

First, a list of belated birthdays Dan McCarthy sent me: Cathie Dunn, Aug. 3; Joan Tamin and Terry Hofer, Aug. 13; and Brian Schubert, Aug. 22. Belated wishes also go to Richard Perry, who reached the big 5-0 on Aug. 22; and Ashley Hilary, who celebrated her Sweet 16 on Aug. 24.

Coming up we have Jim Woodhull, Aug. 25; Josh Kettenbeil, Aug. 28; Adam Panetta and Megan Kennedy, Aug. 29; Lydia Numbers, Sept. 2; Irene Stulsky, Sept. 3; Nancy Mullen and Rachel Terry, Sept. 4; and Fred Kettenbeil, Sept. 5. Happy birthday, one and all!

Don’t forget Southold Historical Society’s art auction at Castello Di Borghese Vineyard this Saturday, Aug. 27. The preview starts at 6 p.m. and the auction itself begins at 6:45. One of our own, Randee Dadonna, has several pieces in the auction. The Annie Lewis, by maritime painter Joseph B. Smith (lot # 101), is also featured. This important oil painting, which depicts the 1863 two-masted schooner Annie Lewis under full sail, measures 24 by 40 inches and is valued at $65,000. It can be seen at the society office (call 631-765-5500) or, along with all other auction entries, viewed online at invaluable.com, where bids can also be placed.

Southold Free Library is displaying artwork by the late Jim Murphy through the end of August. Enjoy the local watercolor scenes he lovingly painted.

Don’t forget the library has fishing poles and tackle boxes for rent. The Book Cottage is also a great place to stock up on reading material. They are open Wednesdays from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. and Saturdays from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Come out and support our volunteer firefighters, who selflessly help those in need, by attending the Southold Fire Department’s annual steak night dinner Saturday, Sept. 3, from 6 to 9 p.m. Tickets are $40 and credit cards are accepted.

Our town animal shelter in Peconic needs everything! That translates to old towels and bedding, canned dog and cat food, dry cat and dog food and peanut butter.

I often mention events three weeks in advance, so be sure to check out the community calendar each week to find all the great things to do around here.

My next column has an early deadline due to the Labor Day holiday. Your news should get to me to me no later than Thursday, Sept. 1. Remember, if I do not reply to you, I did not hear your message or get your email.

As summer winds down, I beg everyone to please be more aware while driving. I’ve had near-accidents with a certain bus, almost had my car door taken off by a distracted cyclist and hear screeching tires daily in front of my home. This can be avoided, for the most part, if we all just take extra time to get where we’re going. Be aware, patient and considerate!

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

I could wax poetic about the end of summer vacation and the beginning of a new school year, but I won’t. I will ask you to live in the moment, be in the moment. Put down the electronics — yes, even you moms and dads — and connect with the people in your lives. Take time to really see what your loved ones have going on. Talk rather than text.

First in birthdays are belated wishes for brothers who have celebrated quite a few birthdays: John Adler turned 90 Sept. 5 and Herb Adler turned 93 Sept. 6. Belated wishes also go out to Jean Yedloutschnig on Sept. 7. Kimi Fujita will mark her 18th birthday at college on Sept. 9; Mei Mei Reilly celebrates Sept. 10; Suzanne Fujita, Sept. 14; Eileen Jaklevic and Scott Ofrias, Sept. 16; Jeanne Guariello, Sept. 20; and Sam Perry, Sept. 22. Happy birthday, everyone!

Anniversaries are coming up for Doug and Caroline MacArthur and Doug and Deb Bellomo, Sept. 14; Scott and Mary Hughes, Sept. 17; and Mike and Rose Anasagasti, Sept. 19. I hope you all find time to spend as a couple to celebrate your day!

Do you love cats? The Southold Town Animal Shelter is overflowing with felines. So during September all cats and kittens there can be adopted for no fee, pending an approved application. These are free little bundles of love for the right home. All have been spayed/neutered, vaccinated, tested and chipped! Please come down and fall in love! Because are so many cats are coming in, the shelter also needs canned cat food and volunteers to help clean. Call Gabby at 63-765-1811, ext. 1.

St. Patrick’s R.C. Church starts its Faith Formation program Wednesday, Sept. 28. Children may be registered at the first meeting. Forms can be found on the parish website and in the front foyer of the church. Level 1 is taught at home by parents. Please register to receive the materials needed. The schedule is as follows: Mondays: levels 3 and 6, 3-4:15 p.m.; Wednesdays, level 2, 3-4:15 p.m., and levels 7 and 8 at St. Agnes School, 7-8 p.m.; and Thursdays, levels 4 and 5 3-4:15 p.m.

St. Patrick’s annual golf outing is set for Wednesday, Sept. 21, at Island’s End Golf Course. Parishioners and non-parishioners are invited. To sign up, call the rectory at 631-765-3442.

The artist of the month at Southold Free Library for September and October is Melissa Hyatt-DeSimone. Come and enjoy her watercolors of nature, featuring local scenes. A reception will take place Sunday, Sept. 11, from 2 to 4 p.m. Melissa also donated a print of her blue crab for the Friends of the Library’s next raffle. Tickets are $1.

Reminder: The Little Free Library, sponsored by the library and Liz and David Shanks, is located at McCabe’s Beach. Great beach reads to take and keep. Everyone should check it out.

Dan McCarthy will have his fourth gallery display in the library foyer during September and October. Dan started his theatrical collection in 1974. That’s a lot of collecting to showcase!

In the coming weeks, I want you to take a deep breath, feel it, enjoy it and r-e-l-a-x. So often I think people are so busy making a living, making a life for their family that they forget to live. If you are rushing every day, are you living or are you a machine?

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

I wished my co-worker Sam Perry a happy birthday last week, but her day is today, Sept. 22, so if you work with her at her full-time job, give her a birthday hug for me! Also celebrating soon are Liam Stinett, Sept. 25; Joyce Wilkens Sept. 26; Chris Manfredi Jr. Sept. 28; Mike Eckhardt, Oct. 3; Carol Chilton-Miller, Oct. 4; and Melissa Hyatt-DeSimone, Oct. 5.

Belated happy anniversary to Don and Doris Bayles, who marked 70 years of marriage Sept. 1. Diane and Dick Jost of Wading River hosted the couple for a celebration with friends. Congratulations!

The final outdoor Sunday yoga at Southold Historical Society is this Sunday, Sept. 25, from 8 to 9 a.m. on the museum complex green across from the firehouse.

It’s Homecoming weekend! To kick things off, the girls’ varsity soccer team plays Port Jefferson Friday, Sept. 23, at 4 p.m. Festivities continue Saturday when the boys’ varsity team plays Greenport at 11 a.m. After that, at 1 p.m., players from years past will gather for the seventh annual alumni game. Get details at southoldufsd.com and click the alumni link or call 631-765-6069.

If you have a stash of children’s books but no children to read them, Ben and Lyla have a solution! This Saturday, Sept. 24, they will collect gently used children’s books for CAST and The Book Fairies at their family’s home, 1385 Jasmine Lane in Southold, from 10 a.m. to noon. They call it an Ice Pop Book Drive because all donors get an ice pop and a chance to win a special gift basket. Let’s help this adorable duo share books with other children.

The Southold Chapter of the DAR is happy to accept Southold residents’ tattered American flags (any size) and arrange for their proper disposal. Depending on demand, and the size of your flag, the chapter may be able to replace it. Email jan7478@aol.com or call 631-298-5988. Also get in touch if you’ve never displayed a flag before and would like to.

Peconic fall hockey begins with open skate/registration on Monday, Sept. 26, from 5 to 6 p.m. The season starts then and runs until Nov. 21. For more details, email inlinehockeyleague@gmail.com.

Last chance to sign 3rd- through 8th-graders up for Southold CYO basketball is Oct. 2. Contact Jen Becker at 1234sons@optonline.net.

An Italian Night fundraising dinner for ELIH will be held Thursday, Oct. 6, at the Soundview Restaurant from noon to 8 p.m. Dinner is your choice of chicken parmesan or spaghetti with meatballs. Tickets are $20. You can get yours at the ELIH Corner gift shop or at the door, or call 631-477-2047.

Southold PTA also continues to collect Box Tops for Education coupons, which can be found on many everyday items. Those who don’t have elementary-age children can drop off coupons at Southold Free Library or mail them to Southold PTA, P.O. Box 470, Southold, NY 11971.

KidStuff coupon books for a PTA fundraiser were sent home and payment ($25 per book) is due tomorrow. There are hundreds of coupons; go to the PTA Facebook page for the list. If you don’t want to participate, return your unsold books.

My next deadline is Sunday, Oct. 2. Until then, live outside your box.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

I love the change of seasons, like many other people, but I don’t think I was ready for pants and shoes. It’s like Mother Nature just flipped a switch! Before you know it, there will be snow on the ground. Yup, I still love snow. I can hear a few of you grumbling with just the mention of it.

Birthdays will be celebrated by Ellen Lund Oct. 7; Michael Kettenbiel, Tom Jerome and Julia Judge, Oct. 9; Cora Small, Oct. 12; Karen Horne, Oct. 14; Rosalie Cavaluzzi, Oct. 16; Connie Sawicki, Oct. 17; Liam Walker, Donna Mosquera, Nancy Cuccaro and Jean Hale, Oct. 18; and Landon Bennett, Jean Osmer and Tom McCarthy, Oct. 19.

Happy anniversary to Ginny and Steve Bertschi on Oct. 10.

Congratulations to Rick and Jeanne Osmer, who welcomed their first grandchild, Arabella Jeanne, Sept. 22. Her parents, Erin and Jordan Iannacchino, live in Virginia Beach.

Congratulations also to Cheryle and Tom Amara and Carol and Dwight Beasley, who welcomed a grandson, Liam Erik Schlachter, Sept. 23. Parents Jon and Amy Schlachter live in Southold with big brother Logan. Liam is also the great-grandson of Bob and Jo Boergesson.

Come to the Hawaiian show and dinner at Soundview Restaurant Sunday, Oct. 23, from 1 to 4 p.m. to support the Birthright office in Southold. There will also be raffle prizes and a 50/50. Price, including dinner, show and tip is $37.50 per person. Get in the mood and wear your Hawaiian outfits! Only 140 tickets will be sold. Contact Mary Pedersen at 631-765-9243 or 516-607-4504.

Community Action Southold Town invites community members to its open house and ribbon-cutting ceremony Sunday, Oct. 16, from 2 to 4 p.m. There will be refreshments and a tour of CAST’s new facility at 316 Front St. in Greenport.

Southold Historical Society will host a benefit Harvest Dinner at the Soundview Restaurant Thursday,Oct. 20, from noon to 8 p.m. Tickets, including gratuity, are $25 each. The meal is a choice of roast beef, salmon or vegetarian. You can purchase tickets at the door or call the society at 631-765-5500.

Save the date for the PTA’s Southold Girls’ Night on Thursday, Nov. 10, 7-9:30 p.m. at Sophie’s. Stop in for a bite to eat with your girlfriends and stay for our select group of vendors from Younique, Rodan & Fields, 31 Bags, Scentsy and Pure Romance. There will be generous raffle baskets from the vendors and a 50/50. All proceeds support the PTA. Bring an out-of-district friend to get a free raffle ticket!

The second season of preservation work at the Old Burying Ground at First Presbyterian Church is well underway. Thanks to volunteers, significant progress was made last summer, but it’s an expensive process and the committee hopes to raise $30,000 this year. Donations can be sent to the Old Burying Ground, P.O. Box 787, Southold, NY 11971. The public is invited to take a quiet stroll through the cemetery to see what’s been accomplished.

Students of the Month for October at the senior high are Grace Bruer, psychology; Anakin Mignone, Global History II; Rebecca Dickerson, AP Biology; Kylee DeFrese, business; Jossoline Campos, English: Katherine Jarvis, College Culinary Arts I; Emma Alvarez, chorus; Jessica Garrido, overall academic achievement; Andrea Palecia, art; Max Cichanowicz, foreign language; and Cadet PO1 Sean Conway, Cadet of the Month.

For the middle school, students of the month are Natalie Kopala, art; Ben Ward, physical education and science; Cole Hilary and Davin Toman, foreign language; Adam Hubbard and Magda Rodriguez, math; Lane Dominy, English and Home and Career Skills; and Ania Smith, chorus. The Random Act of Kindness award goes to Enya Smith and Annamarie Napolitano.

My next deadline is Sunday, Oct. 16. Please send your information as early as possible. In the meantime, think about this. I have come to subscribe to two words these days: patience and acceptance. My mother would be proud that I finally have patience — not “patients,” like I used to tease her. What about you? What words help you steer through the day?

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

In my last column, I asked what words drove your life. I’d love to hear your answers. Patience and acceptance are still mine.

Belated birthday wishes go out to Kristen Mullen, who turned 20 Oct. 11. I also think her mom, Beth, had a birthday the next day, but she won’t tell me. Happy birthday to both Mullen ladies! Birthdays are also in the calendar for Gabriella Bifulco, Oct. 20; Rob Kettenbiel, Cathy Campbell and Ajsia Martocchia, Oct. 21; Michelle Feeley, Susan Connolly and Skylar Kaelin, Oct. 22; Carol Szynaka and Sandy Kollen, Oct. 25; Rich Conrardy and Sally Wolfe, Oct. 26; Jack Giovanniello, Laura Baxendale and Virginia Gilmore on Halloween; and Sarah Reilly, Nov. 2.

Happy 60th anniversary to Dr. and Mrs. Ronald Yedloutschnig on Oct. 26. Congratulations!

The Southold animal shelter is very much in need of dry dog and cat food. If you’re a rabbit lover, they also have a very nice female rabbit up for adoption. Call 631-765-1811, ext. 1.

Be on the lookout for stickers in the windows of local businesses that support the Southold Music Boosters and thank the owners for their commitment to our children. Parents and residents can also become sponsors by visiting the Music Boosters’ portion of the school website.

Congratulations to Christie Staples and Anthony Losquadro, who became engaged on Columbus Day. Anthony had a little help from their dog. Sounds like a great story.

Similar congratulations to Mary Grace Matthaei and Michael Mancz, who got engaged at sunrise last Sunday at the Montauk lighthouse. MaryGrace is currently pursuing her R.N. degree at Stony Brook. Mike is assistant golf pro at North Fork Country Club.

Last weekend was packed with weddings. David van Popering married Justine Haupt at Founders Landing, Kathy Hansen and Henry Stepnoski said “I do” at Orient by the Sea and Emily Miller and Keith Fialkowski tied the knot at her father’s house. Congratulations to you all.

The Memorial Meadow Field of Flags at Southold High School is underway. The front lawn will be decorated with flags honoring veterans, current service personnel and ROTC students. You can sponsor a standard-sized flag for $25 or a specific service branch for $50. Proceeds go to a local veterans organization and the Class of 2020. Contact Christine Imbiano at cimbriano@southoldufsd.com. Money is due Nov. 1 and flags can be picked up Dec. 9.

Southold Free Library’s updated website includes many beautiful photos by Randee Daddona. Take some time to get acquainted with it. You can even register online for library programs!

The Southold Rotary Club’s annual scallop dinner at the Soundview Restaurant is Tuesday, Oct. 25,  from noon to 8 p.m. You may substitute half a roasted chicken. Tickets are available from any Rotarian or at the door for $25 plus gratuity.

The Southold-Greenport Drama Club presents “Almost, Maine” in the district auditorium next Friday and Saturday, Oct. 28-29, at 7 p.m. and Sunday, Oct. 30, at  2 p.m. Tickets at the door are $10 for adults and $6 for students and seniors.

The Southold PTA Book Fair at the elementary school is Oct. 25-27. Students will visit with their teachers and family night is the 27th from 6 to 8 p.m.

The PTA’s Halloween parade is set for Saturday, Oct. 29, at 11 a.m. Line up at the firehouse. The route finishes at the elementary building.

The Southold Historical Society’s Pumpkin Patch takes place Sunday and Monday, Oct. 30-31 at the museum complex. Drop off your best carved pumpkins, which will be placed in the yard and lit with LED candles. Donations are welcome. For more information, call 631-765-5500.

My next deadline is noon Sunday, Oct. 30. I will respond to emails or voicemails to be sure I have your content. Take deep breaths when traveling around the area on weekends; that incredible traffic helps local businesses. Leave extra early and be patient. Stop and smell the roses — or, this time of year, smell the mums.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

As I sit here watching holiday movies on the Hallmark channel, my dogs are taking turns curling around me. Thank goodness, because wow, is it cold out! It is less than 40 days until Christmas and Hanukkah.

Birthday celebrations abound: Isabella DiMaio and Amanda Ladot, Nov. 17; Chris Conrardy and Michael Lasot, Nov. 18; Matt Garms, Nov. 25; Tyler Woodhull, Nov. 20; Amy Bennett, Nov. 21; Sarina Kraehling and Nick and Julia Vicinanza, Nov. 23; Paul Kraehling, Nov. 24; Jen Jaklevic, Nov. 27; Dominick Giovanneillo and Dylan Claussen, Nov. 28; Ashely O’Neil, Nov. 29; and Courtney Kruk, Nov. 30.

Kim and Eddy Chilton have much to be proud of. Congratulations to their daughter Kerry on passing the Virginia state bar exam. Currently, she is a fellow at the Virginia State Law Office for disabilities. Their son Charles is dedicating a year of volunteer service in New Orleans with the St. Bernard project.

In lieu of fines, Southold Free Library patrons may donate to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, November 18-20. Any amount will waive outstanding fines. This is in memory of library staff member Janet Auer’s daughter Ericka,who died from CF two years ago at age 18. Good-will donations to the nonprofit foundation will also be gratefully accepted.

Hurry in and take a chance (or several) on the Friends of the Library’s double year-end raffle! Kaya, an American Girl Doll, is accompanied by a paperback book and accessories. The Lego building toy “Star Wars” with Naboo Starfighter is accompanied by the updated and expanded LEGO Star Wars Character Encyclopedia. Drawings for both prizes will be Thursday, Dec. 15. All chances are $1 each.

Plan to spend some time upstairs at the library, where a community jigsaw puzzle is laid out. Nearby there are colored pencils and coloring pages. Pull up a chair, relax and enjoy!

Southold Historical Society’s Candlelight Tour on Friday, Nov. 25, has much to offer. Come to the green and enjoy caroling, a tree lighting, raffles and a new pop-up Christmas boutique. Visit southoldhistoricalsociety.org for more information.

Claire Kennedy and Patty Hocker of Southold have joined forces to gather much-needed items for our deployed service personnel. You can help out through Nov. 26 by dropping off items in original packaging at Wendy’s Deli in Mattituck, North Fork Real Estate in Cutchogue or Southold Pharmacy in Southold. Items marked with an asterisk are most needed: gift cards (Amazon, eBay, Google Play, etc.), powdered drink mixes/packets, protein bars, coffee,* sugar,* snacks (small, hard containers of chips, pretzels and nuts), gum, toothbrushes/toothpaste, dental floss, cotton swabs, shaving lotion, disposable razors, shampoo, individually packaged tissues and baby wipes, body wash/soap, sunscreen, lip balm, cards, cotton socks and underwear, eye drops, lotion, aspirin /pain reliever, feminine products, snack-size zip lock bags, hand warmers, foot care, word games and puzzles, batteries, writing materials and decorations for all occasions.* Contact Claire at clairekennedy1@optonline.net or Patty at jhocker@optonline.net with questions. Cash donations to help defray shipping costs are also welcome.

High school students of the month for October are Matt DeSimone, business; Michael Wineberger and James Thilberg, English; Owen Klipstein, College Culinary Arts I; Bridgett Comiskey, overall improved academic achievement; Simon Mraz, Cadet of the Month; Julia Kujawski and Edy Nazario Valdez, physical education; Rafael Ernesto Campos, ESL; Elizabeth Quinones, math; Nick Vicinanza, Living Environment; Rhian Tramontana, French; Jessica Cruz, art.

Middle school students of the month for October are Gavin Fredricks, home and career skills; David Okula, Juliet Rand and Grace Broderick, math; Andrew Claussen, reading; Alixis Merino, French; and Robbie Cooper, art. Congratulations to all students of the month.

My next deadline is Nov. 27 for the Dec. 1 issue. Remember, I only publish every other week. I wish you all a wonderful Thanksgiving. May you remember all the wonderful parts of your life to be thankful for. Don’t forget to lift up a friend who may have lost a loved one this year. The first of everything without that person is so difficult. Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

Welcome to 2017. I hope you had a wonderful holiday filled with memories and stories.

Birthday wishes abound! Belated wishes to Kenji Fujita on Jan. 17. Happy birthday to Lucas Stinnett, turning 10 on Jan. 19; Beth Wineburger, Terry O’Conner and Adam Kaelin (who turns 20 x 2), Jan. 21; Kate Mullen gets birthday wishes from Mom, Kristen and Marie on Jan. 23; Julia Jaklevic turns 14 on the 24th; happy birthday to Kelly Hunstein, Jan 28; and Will Tondo, Doreen McFarland and Sarah Boutcher, Jan. 29; as well as Cole Becker and Chris Klipstein, Jan. 30; and Jocelyn Kaelin, who turns 11 on Feb. 1.

Happy anniversary to Angela and Tony Tondo, who celebrate 23 years of marriage Jan. 22.

Wishing a quick recovery to Carol Scott, who recently underwent hip replacement surgery. She also has a birthday coming up Jan. 23. Get well soon, Carol, and have a wonderful birthday!

Lucas Johnson starts school next week at the Paul Hall Center for Maritime Training and Education in Piney Point, Md. The Giovanniello-Becker home is so proud of you, Lucas. Good luck!

The year’s first blood drive is Jan. 25 from 2:15 to 8 p.m. at the Southold firehouse. Complimentary spaghetti dinner and homemade pie for all who donate after 5 p.m. All blood types needed!

Lots of news from Southold Free Library. Passes for the following attractions are now available thanks to grant money from state Sen. Ken LaValle: Brooklyn Botanical Garden, Children’s Museum of the East End, Guggenheim Museum, Intrepid Sea, Air and Space Museum, Vanderbilt Mansion, Planetarium and Museum. You need a Southold library card to borrow any of the passes.

The latest addition to the many conveniences the library offers is a “take a coupon, leave a coupon” receptacle located across from the circulation desk. Preschool Storytime with Miss Dana for ages 30 months to 4 years is being offered Mondays, 1:30-2 p.m., from Jan. 23-March 27. There will be a story, plus early literacy activities focusing on interactive arts and crafts, science and games! To register, call 631-765-2077.

Calling all poetry lovers! Compose and submit a poem for the library’s poetry gallery. Email your submission to Vivian Eyre at vveyre@gmail.com or drop it off at Circulation. This is Vivian’s 6th year as our poetry volunteer and poetry gallery coordinator. A public reception is planned for April 15. Poems must be submitted by March 1.

The Friends’ current raffle prize, on display at the desk, is a pearl/sterling silver necklace and matching earrings. Chances are $1 each and the drawing is Feb. 11.

December Students of the Month at Southold High School are Daisy Rymer, SOHO TV; Alexandra Cardi, Spanish; Gage Bennett, Virtual Enterprise; Katherine Tasca, English 10; Cadet of the Month, Seaman Kenny Latham; Eder Lopez, ESL; Anna Yao Reilly, Earth Science; and Shane Kollen, Random Act of Kindness.

Middle school Students of the Month are Lane Dominy, art; Cole Hilary, Spanish; Reese Thompson and Harry Bifulco, physical education; Jonathan Lopez and Tamara Vidal, math; Nick Diaz, science; and Matthew Mullen, Random Act of Kindness.

As we all go about our normal days, a very brave woman is very sick in the hospital. You may have read about Claire Kennedy’s bacterial meningitis infection. She’s half of the duo that selflessly collected supplies for our deployed soldiers for the holidays. Keep Claire in your prayers and good thoughts. A GoFundMe page has also been set up to support the family at this very difficult time.

My next deadline is Sunday, Jan. 29, by noon, please.

Contact Southold columnist Tina Koslosky at SoutholdTina@aol.com or 631-765-2774.

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